How to Make Sex More Exciting for the Two of You

May 12, 2015

The devil is in the details, so you should pay close attention to the things that make or break the lovemaking. Sometimes you may assume you’re doing all the right moves, with little knowledge of how she wants it her way or how you can both reach your sexual peaks.

Here’s a quick refresher course in sex that contains five handy tips. Take a look at how to introduce a great deal of excitement into your party for two!

How to Make Sex More Exciting for the Two of You

  1. Go back to school! Take turns with your partner in playing teacher and student. Learn to take and follow instructions as much as you love giving them. Figure out when to go gentle, all-out rough, or with just the right ounce of passion and touching.

  2. Practice self-love. Sex, the very intimate act that it is, requires plenty of trust and  confidence. Learn to love yourself and appreciate the fine points of your body and being to be the best deal in town for your lady. This is quite literal, too – masturbate in a healthy way and frequency as a form of self-discovery.

  3. Eat something hot! Make the lovemaking more exciting by spicing up your libido or sex drive. Hot, spicy dishes such as curry can release endorphins for added pleasure. You may also have a chili eating competition with your partner for bonus points!

  4. Explore new things and places. Going through the same route over and over again can make you burn out in sex. Do not overlook her sensitive spots like nipples, knees, and thighs, but don’t forget to stimulate each other mentally, too. Great sex, after all, starts in the head. Create new fantasies, role-play, and just welcome new ideas.

  5. Try being a daredevil. If you can find a safe, legal way to take your loving outdoors then by all means, go for it! Life is too short to be restricted to sex inside the bedroom. Outdoor sex can also lead to huge surges in adrenaline, making you perform better than usual.