Things to Avoid on Having Sex

May 4, 2015

There are major faux pas that men make in bed, dampening his woman’s lust and libido and altogether spoiling the lovemaking in some cases. Before you experience an unfortunate incident like this, get acquainted with top mistakes that you should avoid committing at all costs.

  1. Failing to set the scene. Seduction involves an atmosphere that’s conducive to sex and romance. So clean up your pad and take care of the dirty laundry and food leftovers. Avoid having strange house guests on your couch, too, unless you want your woman to feel weird or awkward. Set the scene by tidying up, dimming the lights, and putting on some nice music to set the mood. A glass of wine won’t hurt.

  2. Skipping foreplay. We get that you’re passionate and raring to get into the main event. But it’s a cardinal sin to always skip foreplay and pounce on her right away. Think of foreplay as the appetizer she needs – it could be a couple of quick caresses, kisses, or tonguing her most sensitive body parts.

  3. Assuming her sexual needs are less than yours. Women like and want sex as much as you do. This is one fact of life that you should not lose sight of, or you’re headed to real trouble with your partner. Your lady loves sex and want it good, so work hard to deliver the goods.

  4. Ignoring the signs and her body language. Your woman may be too shy to tell you what exactly she wants from you, so it’s often her body language that gives it away. She’s not some robot or love doll that you can completely have things your way, so respond to her actions and reactions accordingly. If you’re being too rough, employ some control when her body movements reflect so.

  5. Not minding her erogenous zones. Fondle her breasts, kiss her collarbone, and gently run your fingers along her back. There is a wild combination of prominent and subtle erogenous zones on her body that you need to pay attention to.

  6. Showing disrespect. Before calling her nasty names out of your raging libido or introducing rough play, consider how she feels and make sure you have her consent. She might not be into the things you like in sex, so go easy and gauge her responses to your various acts and gimmicks. It’s always best to err on the side of respect.